I Think I Want A Divorce, But Will I Be Okay?

So, the holiday season 'magic' has worn off.  You have said your final ‘Happy New Year’ and you are weighing whether this is the right moment. The moment to acknowledge that this marriage has run its course . You are determined not to endure another year in this state, but uncertainties linger.

The internal dialogue becomes more intricate as financial considerations take center stage. Can you truly afford to take this step? The fear of potential consequences looms large – will you emerge unscathed, or are you inadvertently signing up to be a bag lady? The prospect of breaking the news and deciding when to do so adds another layer of complexity to an already emotionally charged situation.

To begin, It's important to recognize that you are not alone in grappling with these questions. Many individuals facing the prospect of divorce share similar concerns and uncertainties. Moreover, it's crucial to understand that making such a significant decision requires time, and it's perfectly okay not to rush through the process. Emotions may fluctuate widely as you prepare for this life-altering decision, and that's entirely normal.

Also,  know that there are professionals available to guide you through this challenging process with kindness and confidence. At Blue Heart Mediation, we specialize in assisting couples and individuals in understanding the financial implications of living separately. If the prospect seems daunting, we work collaboratively to explore steps that can lead both parties to a place of stability and well-being.

Navigating the divorce process can be overwhelming, and you may have numerous questions about the next steps. If you find yourself in need of guidance or simply want to start a conversation about your situation, don't hesitate to reach out. We are here to provide support and assist you in making informed decisions as you embark on this transformative journey.